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Name: Derrick
Country: United States
State: Missouri
Metro: Columbia
Birthday: 9/24/1975
Gender: Male


Interests: History, Music,Music Therapy, Blue Grass, Religion, Sinfonia, Restoration Movement-Churches of Christ/ Christian Churches/ Disciples of Christ, Gardening, Beer, Wine, Weightlifting, Traveling, being a Good Social Democrat
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Sunday, October 25, 2009

Back Row of the Kingdom

The past 4 Sundays Liberty and I  went to church, while Naomi stayed home to work on her thesis. This experience is changing my paradigm- here I am a 34 year old man carrying in a 7 month old baby into a institution of conservative values. Feeling a little self conscious, being a given, I have a new level of empathy and respect for single parents. I don't see how they do it. What makes it even more challenging, Liberty hates the nursery at church- which is unlike her. After 3 trials of having to pick the unconsolable little girl from the   shell shocked nurseryworker- I  resigned myself to sit in back of the sanctuary with her and hope for the best.

Fortunately all though she is loud- she is generally happy and overall the people at church are sweet. But I still find the situation uncomfortable- and I can only imagine how an actual single person with a baby in tow visting a church would feel. So as I sat I began looking for single parents with young babies- there were none.


In fear of the the terrifying Pig

Last weekend Liberty and I went on our  Sunday afternoon jaunt. I needed a haircut and my little one loves the hairstylist Tori and mall- so we headed out- giving Naomi some needed quiet. While Tori was cutting my hair- she told me that it was her first day back from being sick with the swine flu and that it was a horrible experience. "Oh..really...that's too bad." Translation- "what the @#$*??! You tell me now as you hold scissors in your hand and I am blind as a bat with my glasses off." When we were finishing up, Liberty started to cry and Tori offered to hold her.    "That's Ok. She got scared and wanted to be with dad." Translation " DO NOT TOUCH MY CHILD with your filthy, disease ridden hands! Or so swear I-  I will not tip. I repeat I will not tip even 5%!"

I know people(including me) are a little paranoid about this swine flu. Tori is a good hairstylist and I know she must work. But Please if you get Swine flu and you go back to work give your clients or co workers a heads up. And of course Swine flu or no Swine -Wash your hands like you are living in an OCD paradise.


Monday, August 03, 2009

Neglect

Tomorrow our house is supposed to have a one time showing. I learned about this Thursday.  So For the past three days we have painted, repaired, and emptied the house. Currently, it is 9:33 PM, and we are not done. Naomi has just got back from the store. Over whelmed I have took a break. While Drinking a beer, I decided to do something which I have neglected to get done for the past...well I can't remember when I last listened to classical music. A shame. So I turned on the radio and  listened to the last of Barber's Adagio for Strings and now I am listening to Mozart's piano Concerto 21. Since I am in the business of attending to that which I have neglected, I'll turn to Xanga. Hello friends on Xanga. Facebook and its little message board will never replace a good blog with good content.
Gotta go clean.


Monday, January 05, 2009

Ann Coulter and Jesus

Tonight, while at the Gym, I so happened to cast my eyes on a T.V that was turned on to Hannity and Colmes who were "interviewing" Ann Coulter. Coulter was blabbing about how Single mothers were evil and the epitomy of a self pitying group with a victim mentality. I didn't watch it long. I just noticed the cross hanging in between Coulter's exposed cleavage. I guess Coulter didn't get the memo. That man who died on that cross- His mama was single for a time and he doesn't like you bad mouthing her or anybody's mama. 


Thursday, January 01, 2009

An end to groundhog day-

Firstly Happy New years. I hope and pray that in this year will bring you blessings and fullfillment.

Recently I have been reading about the conflict between Israel and Hamas. I don't feel that I know enough about the issues to develop an educated opinion all though my sentiments are favoring the retaliatory actions of Jacob's lot. That being said what ever I believe to be justified military actions- at my gut I wish all this violence and crap would end. enough is enough. 

The middle east conflict reminds me of the Bill Murray movie "Groundhog Day". In the movie Murray's character, whose life is self centered, pleasuring seeking and lonely, finds that he has to relive the same day over and over again. He is aware of this looped existence but the people in his life and surroundings are not. At first he attempts to manipulate the situation to fulfill his corrupt desires but Soon he falls in love with a women who rejects his advances. This goes on day after day. He wakes up to the same day and  his old tricks of deception and manipulation continually fail him in gaining the love of this woman. Finally he tells her of his problem and she suggests that he uses the knowledge about people learned from reliving the same day to improve their and his lives. In short- he takes her advice, help improve other's lives and he gains her love which ends the cycle.

I, as probably many of you, can relate to the frustrating experience of trying the same old thing and getting the same results. I once heard insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. Fortunately for most of us our personal moments of insanity don't result in the death of 400 some odd people. (as in the recent Hamas/Israel conflict)

 This belief that all we have to do is kill more people and sooner or later our enemies will break and we will have peace is more than insane. I'm unaware of a single word fit to adequately describe its horribleness.

 Israel and Palestine and the Western and Arabic World  are caught in an awful Groundhog day loop. It is my opinion that the fuel for of this destructive burning cycle is the vast unequal distribution of economic resources which causes poverty. People born in poverty are hopeless, vulnerable, easily influenced, and manipulated by the agendas of religious extremists and violent men. My fear is that we, unlike Murray's character, won't realize this fact and we will continue to attempt to extinguish the fire ot terrorism with gun powder and we will wake up to the next same awful morning.

It is time for an end to Groundhog day.



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